Zero-tolerance policies are often a last resort born out of frustration—the sort of scenario you can imagine resulted in the Danvers High principal recently deciding to ban the word "meep" from utterance on school grounds.
The problem is that zero-tolerance policies are a shoddy tool for changing student behavior. The meep kerfuffle in Massachusetts is going to live past its 15 seconds of fame in part due to reactions to the schoolwide ban.
But we're not here to bloggertunistically poke fun at the Danvers administration's headache—we're here to help. There's a moral to this meeping story, courtesy of authors Curwin, Curwin, & Mendler. From the 3rd edition of their best-selling ASCD book, Discipline with Dignity:
What to Do When More Than One Student Is Acting Out
Sometimes you may be faced with a group of students who are acting out at the same time or feeding off one another. The better you know the dynamics of your class, the more effective you will be in handling this type of situation.
The first step is to pick the one student in the acting-out group who is the one the other students respect the most, fear the most, or are amused by the most. Stopping the misbehavior of this student must come first. We call this strategy "The Leader of the Pack." At a separate time in a one-on-one moment, approach the leader of the pack to help you calm or quiet his crew. Appeal to the student's need for control. Often these students like the role of leader and fit naturally into it. You might say, "Rashid, there is too much talking going on while I am teaching. I need your help solving this problem because I notice that most other students look up to you. What do you think would work?" After suggestions are given, conclude with "I am counting on you to quiet your crew when I give you the signal. Thanks."



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